By Pooja Yadav
What is your expectation?
It is very important to know what your expectations are. Why? This is because it is the first step to bring clarity in a chaotic situation.
So before acting, you must ask yourself what your expectations are. Do you want her to be your girlfriend, a friend (with or without benefits) or you see her as your life partner. This step is of paramount importance because it will tell you about the authenticity of your emotions.
Have you done enough work?
After finding the authenticity of your emotions you must ask yourself another question. And the question is- Have you done enough work?
Have you done enough work to get a positive response from her? Answer this question in yes or no. Ask yourself have you created enough chemistry and understanding? Is there empathy between you and her?
The reason I want you to answer this question in yes or no because whenever our mind is overwhelmed by the emotion of love then it starts playing tricks with us. It exaggerates situations in our mind and makes us believe that the girl also holds some feelings within her.
A lot of people fall in their mind’s trick and as a result, they get a negative and cold response. To avoid this mistake be aware of your mind’s tricks.
How to tell if a girl likes you?
The best way to tell if a girl likes you or not is to express your feelings to her. Some people will say what about indirect ways like taking the help of a mutual friend, reading her body language etc.
Let me tell you the one more brutal truth. I respect your feelings but still, there are many attention seekers and players around us. They give us false signals and forces our mind to play tricks on us. Such people just want attention.
To opt out this possibility I will advise you to directly express your feelings to her.
The truth about getting success in love
In my book Irresistible qualities which ATTRACT FEMININE, I have said that hygiene is of paramount importance in seduction. This is because a bad breath or body odor can actually end things before it gets started.
For a feminine cleanliness is very important. To move further we must at all cost qualify this requirement (cleanliness or hygiene).
Like this, I have talked about many turn-ons and turn-offs in this book. I have also talked about few qualities which a feminist can not resist. In any aspect of life really finance, career, love etc success depends on our competency.
Ultimely the question which comes up is – are you competent enough to achieve it or not? The only thing which matters is our competency.