Since the dawn of homo sapiens, we have been exploring, experiencing, and trying to crack the secret code of love. Many of us seem to have forgotten that in the earlier days, free love was a scarcity. From aristocrats to slaves, marriages and relationships were often given as commands and choices of individuals in higher…
Going back to the time, I just remember how we met, how we became friends and how I fell for you. You are indeed a great personality - the way you talk, the way you smile, your obsession with success, love for your family. Your passion for your future, your philosophical thoughts, clarity about your…
Your leaving caused so much pain but as time goes by I'm slowly learning that thinking of you is just a waste of time. I no longer hoping that you will come back and realize how much value you've lost after breaking up with me. I am sorry, but I can not miss you. I…
I remember seeing the movie 'Scent of a woman' starring Al Pacino as a retired blind Colonel of the US army. If I remember Al Pacino makes a comment that I wish I had a woman in bed and got up in the morning with her smell pervading the bed. Does smell have a meaning…
Love is a powerful emotion; it can nourish, invigorate, encourage, validate and heal. Love is the essence of who we are and the core of our existence. Where there is love, there is no fear, anger or hatred. We yearn for love as it is our birthright and whether or not we received it unconditionally…
Love, this four-letter word with many components is simple yet complex. On some aspects, you can experience feelings of blissfulness and joy but on others, it can leave you jaded. I remember conversations about love and how this culprit could make me lose myself. People would advise against such an experience stating it will make…
The English language uses a single word to express the broad spectrum of the meaning of love: from the "l love you" over a passionate declaration to a casual letter signature such as "lots of love." Greeks defined love in more sophisticated terms such as Eros (Intimacy and Passion), Ludus (Playfulness), Philia (Comradeship), Pragma (Long…
Yes, You are angry right now! You broke up with the love of your life or what is worse, this person is dead now. You are full of anger, rage, and sadness within yourself. You can remind unhappy moments and feelings. You are hateful, hopeless and out of control of your life. The life is…
You found that someone special. You know you want to spend the rest of your life with that one person. You know that being able to spend the rest of your life together is your idea of bliss. But we all know there are no guarantees in life. So, how can you make sure you…
As codependents we lose ourselves in relationships, unaware that losing our Self is the greatest despair. When the relationship inevitably ends, it's devastating, because we are lost. We lack autonomy because task task was not completed by adulthood. The struggle to achieve it is typical of codependent relationships. Often there are power struggles, characterized by…